Aku, diriku & kisahku

Very interesting findings of    
Dr. Tariq Al Swaidan 
might  grasp your attention: 
Dr.Tarig Al Swaidan discovered some verses in the
Holy Qur’an
That mention one thing is equal to another,
i.e. men are equal to women. 
Although this makes sense grammatically,
the astonishing fact is that the number of 
times the word man appears in
the Holy Qur’an
is 24 and number of times the word
woman appears is also 24,
therefore not only is this phrase correct in 
the grammatical sense but also true mathematically,
i.e. 24 = 24. 
Upon further analysis of various verses,

he discovered that this is consistent throughout the whole

Holy Qur’an
where it says one thing is like another.
See below for astonishing result of
the words mentioned number of times in Arabic
Holy Qur’an 
Dunia (one name for life) 115. 
Aakhirat (one name for the life after this world) 115 
Malaika (Angels) 88 . Shayteen (Satan) 88 
Life 145 . Death 145 
Benefit 50 . Corrupt 50 
People 50 . Messengers 50 
Eblees (king of devils) 11 . Seek refuge from Eblees 11 
Museebah (calamity) 75. Thanks ! 75 
Spending (Sadaqah) 73. Satisfaction 73 
People who are mislead 17 . Dead people 17 
Muslimeen 41 .J Jihad 41 
Gold 8 . Easy life 8 
Magic 60 . Fitnah (dissuasion, misleading) ! 60 
Zakat (Taxes Muslims pay to the poor) 32 . 
Barakah (Increasing or blessings of wealth) 32 
Mind 49 . Noor 49 
Tongue 25 . Sermon 25 
Desite 8 . Fear 8 
Speaking publicly 18 . Publicising 18 
Hardship 114 …. Patience 114 
Muhammed 4 . Sharee’ah ( Muhammed’s teachings) 4 
Man 24. Woman 24 
And amazingly enough have a look how many times
the following words appear: 
Salat 5, Month 12 , Day 365,
Sea 32, Land 13 
Sea + land = 32+ 13= 45 
Sea = 32/45*100q.=71.11111111% 
Land = 13/45*100 = 28.88888889% 
Sea + land  100.00% 
Modern science has only recently proven that the water covers
71.111% of the 
earth, while the land covers 28.889%. 
Is this a coincidence? Question is that 
Who taught Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) all this? 
Reply automatically comes in mind
ALMIGHTY ALLAH
taught him.

• Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?

• Saying something and wishing you hadn’t? or

• Saying nothing and wishing you had?

• I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.

• Don’t be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart…if you don’t, you might break theirs.

• Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had that person?

• Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn’t.

• You can’t tell your heart what to do.

• It does it on its own…when you least suspect it, or even when you don’t want it to.

• Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?

• Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much…for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.

• Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?

• We tell lies when we are afraid…

• Afraid of what we don’t know,

• Afraid of what others will think,

• Afraid of what will be found out about us.

• But every time we a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.

• Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.

• Don’t be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.

*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good bye?

*What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?

*What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt? (even if it is that you don’t care anymore)

*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn’t have them?

*What would you do if you never got the chance to say I am friends with all of my family and they know I love them?

People live, but people die.
And I want to tell you that you are a friend.

If you died tomorrow (God Forbid), you wou ld be in my heart.
Would I be in yours?

If you care about me as
much as I care about you, you will send this back.

We might be best friends one year,pretty good friends the next year,
don’t talk that often the next,
and don’t want to talk at all the year after that.

So, I just wanted to say, even if I never talk to you again in my life,
you are special to me and
you have made a difference in my life,

I look up to you,
respect you, and
truly cherish you.

I LOVE YOU!!!!

Girl Facts:

• When a girl misses u, she’s afraid to see how your new girl looks, she’s dreading the fact that ur not hers any more.
• When u break a girls heart, she still feels it when bumping heads 3 years later.
• When a girl just stares deep into your eyes, she’s HOPING that your hers and only hers ( it shows how much she cares: eyes never lie).
• When a girl is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind. When a girl is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.
• When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.
• When a girl answers, "I’m fine, " after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.
• When a girl stares at you, she is wondering why you are so wonderful.
• When a girl lays her head on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
• When a girl calls you everyday, she is seeking for your attention.
• When a girl wants to see you everyday, she wants to be pampered.
• When a girl says, "I’ll love you forever, " she means it.
• When a girl says that she can’t live without you, she has made up her mind that you are her future.
• When a girl says, "I miss you, " no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Guy Facts:

• When a guy calls u he wants to be with you.
• When a guy is quiet, He’s listening to you…
• When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he’s wrong.
• When a guy says, "I’m fine, " after a few minutes, he means it.
• When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do?
• When you’re laying your head on a guy’s chest he has the world.
• When a guy calls you everyday he is in love.
• When a (good) guy say he loves you he means it.
• When a guy says he can’t live without you he’s with you till your done.
• When a guy says, "I miss you, " he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else.

Terkezut ker baca title tuuu…haaa jgn tertipu yer… (",)!! It’s not about my wedding day!!! Actually nak citer pasal biler cuti sekolah dah bermula…maka bermulalah juga jemputan kenduri kawen…kekadang tu sampai 2 @ 3 majlis sehari…hehehe…

Okie…yang ini majlis kenduri 2 pupu aku Shukie …Majlis resepsi berlangsung pada 050606…jam 8.30 mlm…di Dewan Tun Hamdan Sheikh Tahir,Wisma Sejarah…& malam tuuu jadi sejarah gak buat aku…tak pasal2 jadi penyambut tetamu segera…or kater lain nyer…secara ‘bidan terjun’  yer laaa aku dtg just nak memenuhi undangan…namun disebabkan tak cukup org…tetamu lak tiba awal dari masa yg di tetapkan…& aku pun as sedara…terus laa diangkat menjadi penyambut tetamu…memula memang segan…pergh!! aku dah lama tak amik tugas nie…tetiba kena jadi mau aku tak  gelabah…anyway anyhow…semua berjalan dengan lancar..Alhamdulillah…MAjlis Di mulai dgn ketibaan para tetamu…sementara menanti ketibaan pengantin…tetamu turut di sajikan halwa telinga…dengar lagu2 pilihan DJ…Pengantin tiba lebih kurang jam 8.45 mlm…dgn iringan paluan kompang (rakaman jer), pengantin menuju ke meja utama (tak der acara bersanding)…& di mulai deangan bacaan doa selamat & doa makan…then apalagi makan time laaaa!!! Di kala ini laaa tetamu yg tiba agak berkurang so aku serahkan jap tugas aku pada yg lain…aku aper lagi carik aku nyer kamera…& shoot sana shoot sini…hmmm nak tgk gambar lain…pls go to this website http://airieda.fotopages.com/ , lepas acara makan2…sesi karaoke pun bermula..pas sorang..sorang dok menunjukkan bakat terpendam…tak ketinggalan si pengantin…My Big Brother pun nak nyanyi jugak…lepas gian nak nyanyi laa tuuu…hehehe…however not bad!!…Majlis bersurai dlm kol 11 lebih…

Hmmm yg nie plak wedding my fren Ruby & Syahrul…berlangsung kat area bangi, pada 100606…both are skewl mate…satu sekolah ngan aku dulu…korang ingat biler cinta diorang nie berputik yaaa?…haaa!! kalau ader yg jawab maser kat sekolah…memang laa salah…cinta berputik lepas abis sekolah..di kala masing2 dah bekerja…hehehe itu lar jodoh namanyer…this is majlis kat umah lelaki…coz maser kat umah pengantin pompuan buat kat kelantan…so aku tak dapat laa attend tht majlis…hmmm aku gi ngan Matun..LIza & Che Da…maser kami tiba…org memang ramai…dan pengantin tgh disandingkan kat pelamin nan indah…lepas jgk jap pengantin kat singgahsana…kami gi makan dulu…ramai gak member2 yg datang…hmm time camnie laaa berkumpul nyer kengkawan sekolah….kira cam gathering/reunion laaa…bkn takat kengkawan…cekgu pun ader (Pn Zaleha)…pas makan kami berkumpul ngan kengkawan yg lain…sementara menunggu  pengantin selesai makan…acara karaoke berlangsung…one of person yg menyanyi is Malek Nor (still remember him-bekas atlet bina badan dulu)…After pengantin selesai makan & sebelum pulang, kami bergambar ngan mereka & menitip ucapan tahniah buat keduanya…

Hmmm…itulah serba sikit pasal majlis kenduri kawen/walimatul urus/resepsi/etc..yg memang popular di waktu sekolah cuti…"so majlis ko plak biler?"…pertanyaan cepumas buat aku…jawapannya…"Insyaallah akan tiba..maser cuti sekolah…thn tak tau lagi…hehehe" JUST WAIT & SEE….Chiow..

Yesterday…pagi waiting for Nor (my officemate), janji nak gi Pasar Tani at Tmn Melawati…around 9.30 a.m dia sampai…kitorang just nak beli makanan for sarapan..yer laa kat umah pun my parents takder diorg gi bercuti kat belah pantai timur ikut abg aku…so aku terpaksa laa beli something utk adik2 aku…tak lamer kat pasar tani..coz anak Nor dah tak nak dok diam…sampai kat umah bersarapan ngan adik2 aku…pastu  matun call ajak kuar…ke mana destinasi tak tau lagi…matun tiba ngan Nazirah dlm kol 11 kot…Memula ingat nak gi KLCC…nak masuk parking kat tepi masjid (coz murah) but too many cars queue up so kitorg ubah plan gi arean pusat bandar…area Jln TAR… Naz tgk2 veil utk majlis dia nanti..Matun sempat membeli tudung..then kitorg gi jejalan..tgk baju2 utk pengantin…matun dok sibuk pilih aper kaler utk her wedding in future…hehehe..aku pun dok tgk fesyen baju yg menarik…then kitorg gi mkn kat SOGO..Aku ngan matun mkn Kebab & Nazirah just hv a bun…then kitorg just window shopping kat SOGO…around 3 kitorg bergerak pulang…but bkn terus balik umah…kitorg singgah kat umah Tuti…ibu tuti pun ader…tumpang solat…& jenguk anak tuti…lamer tak jumpa tuti..she nampak kurus skit compare last time aku jumpa dia  bln 2 ari tuuu…lebih kurang jam 5 lebih kitorg pun balik…hantar Naz..then aku ngan matun singgah Jusco..at first she thought want to wash her car but have to wait about 3 hours so tak jadi laa…so kitorg masuk jusco..jejalan..then mkn..for dinner..I have a prawn me…& matun having a yong tau fu…then matun antar aku…mlm, aku tak kuar gi mana2 lepak kat umah ngan adik2..& hv to cook something for them…Aku masak telur goreng masak sambal & daging masak lada hitam…then kitorg just tgk tv..so itu laa kisah seharian aku maser cuti ari sabtu semalam…hmmm last thursday one of my fren Ruby dah selamat bernikah ngan Syahrul (also my schoolmate)..& yesterday evening my cousin juga dah slamat jadi suami org…hehehe…aku? biler lagi? hmmm insyaallah akan tiba…cuma tak tau tarikh sebenar…=)

If a girl cries in front of you, it means that she couldn’t take it anymore.
If you take her hand, she would stay with you for the rest of your life,
If you let her go, she couldn’t go back to being herself anymore.

A girl won’t cry easily,
Except in front of the person who she love the most, she becomes weak.
A girl won’t cry easily,
Only when she love you the most, she put down her ego.

Guys, if a girl cries because of you, please hold her hands firmly,
she’s the one who would stay with you for the rest of your life.

Guys, if a girl cries because of you, please don’t give her up,
maybe because of your decision, you ruin her life.

When she cry right in front of you,
When she cry because of you,
Look into her eyes,
Can you see & feel the pain & hurt she’s feeling?
Think…
Which other girl have cried with pure sincerity, In front of you, And because of you?

She cry not because she is weak,
She cry not because she want sympathy or pity,
She cry, because crying silently is no longer possible,
The pain, hurt, & agony have become too big a burden to be kept inside.

Guys,
Think about it,
If a girl cry her heart out to you,
And all because of you,
It’s time to look back on what you have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,
Coz one day,
It may be too late for regrets,
It may be too late to say "I’m sorry".

To my friends…
Ponder this message seriously.
Dont do this to a girl,
You may regret for the rest of your life.
Maybe in your life,
She’s the only one that love YOU the most.
Remember this lesson………

I wanted to share this with you - it says it all. 

One Flaw In Women

Women have strengths that amaze men.

They bear hardships and they carry burdens,

but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.

They sing when they want to cry.

They cry when they are happy

and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in.

They stand up to injustice.

They don’t take "no" for an answer

when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.

They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.

They love unconditionally.

They cry when their children excel

and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about

a birth or a wedding.

Their hearts break when a friend dies.

They grieve at the loss of a family member,

yet they are strong when they

think there is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss

can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.

They’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you

to show how much they care about you.

The heart of a woman is what

makes the world keep turning.

They bring joy, hope and love.

They have compassion and ideas.

They give moral support to their

family and friends.

Women have vital things to say

and everything to give.

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

1) Pilih orang yang mempunyai minat yang sama seperti anda supaya anda mempunyai persamaan, tetapi jangan mengetepikan orang yang langsung tidak mempunyai persamaan dengan anda, bersikap terbuka baik untuk anda.

2) Ingatlah pada satu pedoman penting iaitu berlaku baik terhadap orang lain sebagaimana anda suka diperlakukan. Sekiranya anda menghormati orang lain,orang lain akan menghormati anda juga.

3) Sedarlah bahawa tiada siapa yang sempurna, setiap orang mempunyai sifat-sifat aneh dan kecacatan, dan menerima kecacatan antara satu sama lain adalah kunci
persahabatan yang baik.

4) Hargai pendapat satu sama lain.

5) Sedarlah bahawa kawan yang rapat sekalipun tidak dapat bersama 24 jam.Bina minat-minat yang lain dan jangan cemburu apabila kawan anda mempunyai
minat-minat yang lain juga.

6) Komunikasi sangat penting, kawan anda tidak boleh membaca fikiran anda.Sekiranya ada sesuatu yang menjejaskan persahabatan anda, beritahulah.

7) Jangan biarkan faktor luaran seperti tekanan (stress)menjejaskan persahabatan anda. Kawan yang baik akan membenarkan anda melepaskan perasaan kepada
mereka, tetapi jangan hanya mempergunakan mereka untuk melepaskan perasaan … dan sebagai balasan anda sepatutnya bersedia untuk mendengar luahan perasaan
mereka pula.

Belajar daripada satu sama lain.

9) Jangan mengata di belakang kawan anda.

10) Pilih kata-kata anda dengan bijaksana kerana anda
tidak boleh menariknya kembali.

Kuharap kau cuba memahami
Luahan hati ini
Yang ingin dicintai

Kuharap kau dapat menghayati
Sentuhan jiwa ini
Yang ingin disayangi

Tiada balasan
Yang ada hanyalah alasan
Tiada jawaban
Yang ada hanyalah persoalan

Di manakah kejujuran
Di manakah ketulusan
Di manakah keikhlasan
Di manakah kejujuran

Kerana Tuhan hanya mahukan
Kejujuran, keikhlasan
Cinta

Kepada yg masih SINGLE…
Cinta ibarat kupu2. Makin kau kejar, makin ia menghindar. Tp, bila kau
biarkan ia terbang, ia akan menghampirimu di saat kau tak menduga.
Cinta mampu membahagiakanmu tapi sering pula ia menyakiti, tp cinta
itu hanya istimewa apabila kau berikan pd seseorang yg layak menerima.

Kepada yg ragu2 dgn PERNIKAHAN…
Cinta bknnya mencari seseorang yg "SEMPURNA", tetapi menemukan
seseorang yg mampu menjadikan dirimu sempurna.

Kepada PLAYBOY / PLAYGIRL…
Jgn katakan "AKU CINTA PADAMU!" bila kau tdk benar2 peduli. Jgn
bicarakan soal perasaan bila itu tdk benar2 ada. Jgn kau sentuh hidup
seseorang bila kau hanya berniat main2 dgnnya. Jgn menatap ke dlm mata
seseorang bila apa yg kau lakukan hanya pembohongan. Hal paling kejam
yg dilakukan ialah membuat seseorang jatuh cinta, sedangkan kau tdk
berniat langsung "UNTUK MENERIMANYA" saat ia terjatuh.

Kepada yg PATAH HATI…
Sakit… patah hati… bertahan selama kau menginginkannya dan akan
menghiris luka sedalam kau membiarkannya. Persoalannya, bukan bagaimana
kita mengatasi rasa sakit itu, tetapi adalah apa yg boleh diambil sbg
pengajaran dan hikmahnya.

Kepada yg BELUM PERNAH JATUH CINTA…
Bagaimana kalau jatuh cinta? Mahu jatuh, jatuhlah! Tetapi, jgn sampai
terjerumus. Biar selamba tp stabil. Berkongsilah tetapi jgn tak adil.
Cubalah utk memahami tetapi bkn bermakna tdk boleh meminta apa2.
Bersedialah utk terluka dan menderita, tetapi jgn simpan semua rasa
sakit jika itu yg benar2 dialami.

Kepada yg ingin MENGUASAI…
Hatimu patah melihat org yg kau cintai berbahagia dgn org lain, tetapi
akan lebih sakit lagi apabila mengetahui bahawa org yg kau cintai 
ternyata tdk bahagia dgn mu.

Kepada yg takut MENGAKUI…
Cinta menyakitkan bila anda putuskan hubungan dgn seseorang. Tetapi,
lebih sakit lagi bila seseorang memutuskan hubungan dgn mu. Tetapi,
cinta paling menyakitkan apabila org yg kau cintai, langsung tdk
mengetahui perasaanmu terhadapnya.

Kepada yg masih bertahan MENCINTAI SESEORANG YG TLH PERGI…
Hal menyedihkan dlm hidup ialah bila kau bertemu seseorang lalu jatuh
cinta. Kemudian akhirnya menyedari bahawa dia bukanlah jodohmu dan kau
tlh mensia-siakan masa bertahun-tahun utk seseorang yg tdk layak. Kalau
sekarang dia sudah tdk layak, 10 thn dr sekarang pun dia tetap tak akan
layak. Biarkan dia pergi dan lupakan.